Chevalier

An opinionated curmudgeon (YOMV) in Dallas, Texas, blogging primarily about “pay for play,” P4P

Archive for July 6th, 2009

Trade offs

Posted by Chevalier on July 6, 2009

This analogy came up in a discussion of ladies not being available during a time convenient for the client, so it’s focused on schedule.  I’ve modified it to apply also to the question of rates:

quote: Originally posted by lance charger
What do golfers do when they can’t get the T-Time they want?

Great analogy. If the specific TIME [or cost] is what’s most important they change golf courses and call as many as they possibly can in the area to get the TIME they want [or greens fees they want to spend]. If the specific GOLF COURSE is what’s most important to them, they take whatever [tee] time [at whatever rate] they can get. In my view it’s how the customer chooses to prioritize what it is they WANT, it’s something different for everybody as this thread illustrates very well.

Some just like to play golf, and the specific course doesn’t matter that much.  Some like to play a specific course, and don’t worry as much about the schedule or cost.  Two approaches; neither is wrong; just different.

In P4P, some clients choose ladies based on when they’re available or what their rate is.  Some choose ladies because they want to see that particular lady, and the schedule and rate are secondary concerns (although still constraints to a degree).  More and more, I find myself in that second group.

The complaints arise when someone wants to have their cake and eat it too.  Have their choice of a specific golf course, while still get the tee time and greens fees they prefer.  If you can, more power to you, but most often you have to accept trade-offs.  Do so with grace, please.

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Attraction

Posted by Chevalier on July 6, 2009

I ran across a rather interesting — because rare — comment by an escort in a post on ASPD:

I can think of five long time regulars of mine, that I have seen for years.

All are unattractive, two are obese, one is disabled, and all are socially awkward.

You see comments by clients occasionally about how the ladies must perceive us as unattractive.  But it’s pretty rare coming from the ladies, unless they can do it anonymously.  (I suspect the five regulars Heather spoke about are not ASPD members and therefore wouldn’t see it.)

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